So in my last post I said that I would properly introduce you all to my ride or die and i'm going to do that buy telling you a few things about him and sharing photos of HIM and I . His name is Kidear and we actually met online via twitter in 2012 when he was looking for a graphic designer and was referred to me by a few people and long story short we exchanged information did business and almost 6 years later here we are!

I'm home, its raining, i'm smoking hookah and listening to some Frank Ocean and I thought it was the perfect time to revamp and let you all know that i'm officially back and going to be blogging often now. I'm sorry to my old viewers who have been following me since this was a "pop culture & ratchet" blog under the name of Girls and Cupcakes. Funny now because i'm gay lol but thank you for still being here and to my new viewers. . . welcome to the show, please keep all hands and feet inside and please enjoy the ride.

 I've been super neglectful to my blog and you guys, I'm sorry . Lots have been going on with me since I've actually blogged about life here . I'm now in a happy 4 year relationship with the love of my life Kidear, I've started up a successful baked good and sweets business entitled "Sweets By Steez" and even picked up a side retail job . I've gotten so comfortable working from home and for myself that I actually wanted to see how it felt to have a "real job" . I told myself I'd try it out for 1 year and next month on the 18th is the year mark . It's cool I guess though it's not for me i'm happy that i'm sticking it out for the full year as I set out to do . I've also been doing lots and lots of traveling with my partner of course living life and growing to better myself as a person .